how willing am I to change for love?

What is a glow up if not just a change that matches societal expectations for what is “good”?

I wish to have a glow up so that people will like me.
I can wear more revealing clothes, dye my hair, get whatever sonny angels are, revamp my Instagram.

But I am scared that if I have that mythical glow up, I will not be myself anymore.
Because I as myself would not do any of those things.

I wonder if people who do things for reasons other than for themselves end up losing themselves, losing direction.

Is it worse to be loved but to have lost oneself?
Or is it worse to be in touch with oneself, but without love?
Perhaps there is a middle ground?

How willing am I to change for love?

Ideally, one would be able to be loved while being themselves.

I am trying to love everyone as they are.

I hope someone can love me as I am.